Day 24
Jan 24, 2014
Jan 24, 2014
My first: I refused to take the 6% discount from my carpet
company.
I went to my carpet company to make my final selection for
the carpet in my new bedroom and to make the payment. The owner offered me $2 off per square yard. I
told him that I did not want to accept the discount. He got the deal from his
supplier, so I said he should get the discount.
Well, what ensued was a bit out of the ordinary. He had the
ticket all made out and he was not ready to be an “Indian giver”. He said he
offered it to me and that is it. The unfortunate thing here is that his
granddaughter’s father was killed earlier that day in a car/train accident. He
was in a hurry to leave to be with his granddaughter and did not want to take
the time to make up another ticket. Of course, I understood completely and told
him how sorry I was. I was a bit
disappointed that my offer was refused, but he said I could make it up to him
with my next carpet purchase. I said I didn’t know when that would be and he
said “Aw…you’re always doing something to your house”. I said “Ok, it’s a deal!
This was really an awkward interaction because I was SO
willing to tell him about my story of doing “firsts” everyday. How stupid! This
guy wanted to console his granddaughter during this horrific event and all I
could do was think of me and my story. Thank God I “woke” up and realized that
it is NOT all about me. (See previous blog “I Owe You”). This “first” was of no
significance compared to what was happening to this man and his family. Sometimes,
you just have to shut the hell up, Mary!
I think this would be one of my hardest challenges, since I love to get a sale or discount! I agree that we just never know what is happening in someone else's life. The gentleman from the carpet store sure had a lot on his plate.
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